Okay...here's how it went.
Joey kept Gwen out for an hour after picking her up.
They had a little after school snack date.
When she finally got home my first question to her was, "Who did you sit by at lunch?"
She responded that she didn't know the girl she sat by.
My eyes started welling up with tears again.
I asked if it was a girl from her class.
She told me that it was not.
I almost pulled her out of school right then.
But then Joey informed me that she DOES have a friend.
One of her best friends from last year is in her class again.
She just couldn't find her at lunchtime.
I would have died a thousand deaths and started to cry in the lunch room doorway at the thought of being so presumptuous as to sit by a stranger.
(That of course was before my mom explained to me that crying will only bring more attention to you. Since then I've hardly shed a tear...at least not for myself.)
But it became clear to me quickly that Gwen is indeed not my offspring.
She is confident and she enjoys making new friends and talking to people she doesn't know.
Even when they think she is weird because of it.
One girl showed her where the bathroom was, another girl helped her unstrap her lunchbag from her backpack, another girl played kitties with her at recess, and Gwen loves math. Gwen also picked out a book about Washington D.C. for her teacher and wrote him a note in the front. And he read the book to the class and let her tell about her vacation. (I got this idea from a blog I stalk who is a cousin of my sister in law's husband...click here to read her blog full of good ideas.)
When I asked her if she would like to stay home with me and cuddle for the whole day tomorrow, she declined.
She loves school.
So now I can worry about other things.
Like Max's new obsession.
He tells us every five minutes that he DOES NOT want to be a dad.
He has lots of reasons and they all seem legitimate. Mostly he is scared of growing up.
He is definitely my son.
Now for anyone who currently resides in Richfield and has children attending k-2nd grades....
do you use the new state of the art drop off lanes to deposit your children in the morning?
I was told to drop kids off in the lane closest to the school and then use the other lane to exit.
So I tried it for the first time this morning.
I stopped behind the car in front of me and unlocked the doors for Gwen to get out.
She couldn't get the door opened.
Then I noticed a crossing guard waving her arms frantically for me to move forward.
Because the car in front of me was gone.
So I did.
I unlocked the doors again (because they lock automatically when you drive) and again Gwen couldn't get her door open.
Another lady frantically waves me forward.
So I finally pulled clear to the end where there were no ladies to yell at me.
As Gwen closed her door she turned around and yelled, "You are SOO RUDE MOM!"
(I guess I was taking my frustration out on her.)
Haha...first grade is a lot different from kindergarten. I have to wait 6 hours instead of 3 to apologize for being rude.
And in those 6 hours, she is hating me.
Does anyone remember talking to your friends at recess about how RUDE your mom was?
(I do...sorry mom.)
I am going to write a letter to the school requesting that they put a drop-off tutorial video on their website on what they expect. No stopping? Do I need to purchase an ejectable seat for Gwen? If children could get out of the car as fast and efficiently as adults, I would have more kids. But they can't. They are slow. They have little legs.